About Us
Whether you’re dreaming of an intimate celebration or a grand gathering, our expert planning is on hand from the moment you enquire. We don’t just host weddings, we craft seamless, beautifully executed experiences. From ceremony to celebration, we ensure every detail reflects your vision.
Our values are the foundation of everything we do – built on integrity, creativity and a commitment to delivering exceptional experiences.
With care, attention to detail and genuine passion, we deliver the perfect wedding or celebration.
With a wealth of experience in the wedding and hospitality industries, we will provide all the planning support you need to curate your perfect day.
Jo Dearsley & Lee Brown
Custodians of Gildings Barns
About Lee
With over 35 years in hospitality as both a chef and business owner, I know what it takes to run a smooth, memorable event. I’ve catered for hundreds of weddings and celebrations over the years, and always love seeing everything come together on the day.
My wife and I live locally with our two young children, and I’m passionate about supporting our community – from using the best local produce to working with trusted local suppliers.
About Jo
I started working in wedding and events six years ago and instantly fell in love with the energy, creativity, and joy of events management. I take pride in the details and helping people feel calm - there’s something truly special about creating unforgettable moments.
Having swapped a fast paced career in London for the calm of the countryside, I live in the village of Newdigate, just minutes from Gildings Barns, with my husband and love raising our two boys in this beautiful part of the world.
"Whether you’re planning something simple or something spectacular, we’re here to guide you every step of the way and help make it unforgettable."
Steeped in
History
Unlike many rustic barn wedding venues, Gildings Barns is family-owned.
Parts of Gildings Barns date back 300 years, with the main Gildings Barn and additional structures added by the owner's father and improved and maintained by their son.
The main ‘Gildings Barn’, tucked away at the rear of the site, was built in the early 1990s by Peter Hall, who had a passion for oak-framed structures. Following careful research, he built this Sussex-style ‘aisled’ barn using traditional carpentry techniques and materials. He was assisted by family friend and skilled local carpenter, Alan Monk. All of the timber, some 60 to 70 small oak trees, were salvaged from nearby Holmwood Common after the storms of 1987 and 1990. In recognition of the quality of workmanship, the Country Land Owners Association awarded Peter the prestigious ‘Farm Buildings’ development prize in 1993.
Peter’s wish was that people would continue to enjoy Gildings for their special events, but that the agricultural integrity of the site would be retained.
This wish continues to be realised today. The barns remain central to those lucky enough to hold their celebrations here for years to come, from small moments to lasting memories created for all who visit.
As do the memories of those who built and maintained the Barns.
In loving memory of Peter Hall & Ed Graepel.
